So T Dub has a video about how to get your ex back, and he says you need to write a letter after the breakup. Handwritten. I know, who writes those anymore? Exactly! It’s a rare thing and it demonstrates that you are sincere!
The purpose of the letter is to say that you accept the breakup and that you agree with it. Weird, dumb sounding? A little. T Dub explains the reasons better than I could.
Your goal is to eventually get your ex re-attracted to you. For this, you sort of have to get back into “the game.” If you weren’t expecting to hear this, well sorry. I don’t know what else to tell you.
You aren’t going to get your ex back by begging, drunk dialing, drunk texting, pleading, arguing, explaining your reasons… Sorry but most of that stuff will push your ex farther away.
If you are serious about it, then you have to get T Dub’s guide because he explains how to actually get your ex to want you back…
So you’re thinking you’ve got no chance because it’s been a year? One year since the breakup is a long time, yes. But it doesn’t mean that there’s no chance. Getting your ex to want you back fast is about rekindling the attraction. Getting back to “the game.” T Dub is the best at explaining this.
Try to meet for coffee or something casual. Don’t try to set up a date. Forget about “dates” for a while. You want to see if there is the opportunity for “re attraction.” Even though you might feel desperate, if you do desperate, stupid things to get your ex back… it won’t work.
IT WONT WORK! Sorry.
T Dub has a technique about writing a letter after the breakup, but I don’t know if that will work because it’s been a whole year since the breakup.
So I think you should just try to call your ex up. Call up your ex, and try to set up a casual coffee meeting, or a casual lunch. Remember, informal, and fun!
T Dub says the next thing to do is to slowly work on rebuilding the attraction. You usually will do this by doing adventurous and crazy activities together. Think of things that involve emotion. And be patient. T Dub’s guide answers pretty much all the questions about getting your ex to want you back. You can check it out here.
Some great things to say at first are,
- “I’m sorry.”
- “I agree about the breakup.”
- “I was wrong (if you were wrong).”
Yes, I know, you want to win her back. But you will have to accept the breakup first. If you need to know why right now, T Dub made a video about it.
After you accept the breakup, you want to wait a while. Maybe 2-3 weeks. Then you want to try to get back into “the game.” But slowly.
Just like winning a marathon doesn’t happen in a minute, winning your girl back won’t happen instantly either. You will have to be patient, and you will have to commit to wanting the best for her. No matter what. Don’t be too anxious.
One of the first steps that T Dub explains, is start off by getting together with your ex for coffee. The point is to try to have fun and have a casual time together. This is something that you want to do a couple times, without arguing, before you have a chance to start “the game” again.
After a couple “successful” coffee meetings, you want to try to do something crazy adventurous together. Like hiking, or rollerskating, or driving somewhere. Rekindling the attraction is the goal. But slowly.
T Dub’s guide is the fastest way to get your girl to want you back.
I don’t know. But I do know that today is a great day to start planning how to make your ex want you back.
Is there really a way to make your ex want you back? Well, you can’t force anyone to choose you, but yes. You make your ex want you back by getting back into the game. But your ex has to be willing. And you might have to make some changes to yourself to! T Dub is the best at explaining how to get your ex to want you back.
Start the game again!
Before a couple starts to date, they play a game. They basically chase each other and have fun together before the relationship is “official.”
It surprises me that most people don’t think about this when they are trying to get their ex back. I think it’s all the emotional pain that is going on. Breakups just suck! They will drag you through no end of grief!
So there’s no surefire way to get your ex back in a guaranteed way. But if you want the best and easiest ways to get your ex to want you back, read T Dub’s stuff.
Is there a way to make your ex want you back? Well, technically you can’t force anyone to do anything.
But yes, there are easy steps you can take to make your ex want you back. What I mean by that is, rekindle the love with your ex. Get your ex to start thinking about you again. Try to communicate and behave in a way that makes your ex crazy about you again! T Dub offers the best advice I know of on how exactly to do this, because though it’s easy, you have to do it right. Doing even one step wrong could cost you getting your ex back.
The tips to get your ex back
Accept the breakup, then tell your ex you accept the breakup. A great way to do this is with a handwritten letter, which T Dub explains in a video here.
You then wait a few weeks (yes weeks…), then you try to start the adventure all over again. But subtly. You can’t be direct about it. It’s not sneaky either though. You have to basically ask yourself how you can get your ex interested again.
So the goal would be to start doing fun things together, not “dates” but stuff like hiking, ice skating, crazy fun, adventurous stuff.
You can read other articles on this site about how to get your ex back fast… or you can just jump right to the source of “secrets.”
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