So you’re thinking you’ve got no chance because it’s been a year? One year since the breakup is a long time, yes. But it doesn’t mean that there’s no chance. Getting your ex to want you back fast is about rekindling the attraction. Getting back to “the game.” T Dub is the best at explaining this.

Try to meet for coffee or something casual. Don’t try to set up a date. Forget about “dates” for a while. You want to see if there is the opportunity for “re attraction.” Even though you might feel desperate, if you do desperate, stupid things to get your ex back… it won’t work.

IT WONT WORK! Sorry.

T Dub has a technique about writing a letter after the breakup, but I don’t know if that will work because it’s been a whole year since the breakup.

So I think you should just try to call your ex up. Call up your ex, and try to set up a casual coffee meeting, or a casual lunch. Remember, informal, and fun!

T Dub says the next thing to do is to slowly work on rebuilding the attraction. You usually will do this by doing adventurous and crazy activities together. Think of things that involve emotion. And be patient. T Dub’s guide answers pretty much all the questions about getting your ex to want you back. You can check it out here.