You’re afraid your lover might soon become your ex lover.

Don’t panic. Even if you have real reason to believe that your lover is considering leaving you, you still have options. Don’t give up, or give in to those hopeless thoughts!
If you feel there’s been a gap building between you and your lover, try writing a hand-written letter to try to express your feelings.
  • Express your feelings about how you feel you’ve been the distant one in the relationship.
  • Express your plan for trying to make things right and get things back where they need to be.
Some things to consider:
Depending on how long this frustration has been going on, your partner might have started forming bonds with another potential lover. This is why you need to be urgent.
Get real about the situation. Make a conscious admission about whatever your faults have been. If you’ve been too busy, you need to take some things out of your schedule so that you can spend more time with your partner. If you’ve been dealing with a huge amount of stress, then level with your partner and ask for help in dealing with the stress, as opposed to trying to handle it yourself and becoming more distant.
Whatever the situation seems to be, whatever your fears, meet them head on! You may also want to read about resetting emotionally.

-Avery