Some great things to say at first are,

  • “I’m sorry.”
  • “I agree about the breakup.”
  • “I was wrong (if you were wrong).”

Yes, I know, you want to win her back. But you will have to accept the breakup first. If you need to know why right now, T Dub made a video about it.

After you accept the breakup, you want to wait a while. Maybe 2-3 weeks. Then you want to try to get back into “the game.” But slowly.

Just like winning a marathon doesn’t happen in a minute, winning your girl back won’t happen instantly either. You will have to be patient, and you will have to commit to wanting the best for her. No matter what. Don’t be too anxious.

One of the first steps that T Dub explains, is start off by getting together with your ex for coffee. The point is to try to have fun and have a casual time together. This is something that you want to do a couple times, without arguing, before you have a chance to start “the game” again.

After a couple “successful” coffee meetings, you want to try to do something crazy adventurous together. Like hiking, or rollerskating, or driving somewhere. Rekindling the attraction is the goal. But slowly.

T Dub’s guide is the fastest way to get your girl to want you back.