Your Ex Says It Was Your Fault.

Lots of times during breakups the one doing the breaking-up gives crazy reasons for the separation. Sometimes it seems that they are trying to hide something. But other times, we know that a breakup is our fault, and the ex let’s us know it. Big time.

We know it’s our fault, we feel super guilty about it, but we want to make every effort to get back together because we realize what a mistake we’ve made!

Getting Your Ex Back: Where to Start.

We know that many breakups happen due to pride and jealousy. If you’ve done anything at all to spark your lover’s jealousy, it’s likely they will let you know about it. If you persist in whatever your doing that makes them jealous, don’t be surprised when your partner starts to pull away. Pride is our nature, after all.

Start by accepting the breakup. Be honest, but don’t be unnecessarily hard on yourself. In other words, be aware of your mistakes, but also be aware that there’s only so much you can do about it. You can’t go back and undo what has been done, so you might as well let go of that emotional burden.

With humility, you will have a chance of getting back with your ex. First give her some time, then humbly approach her maybe a few weeks later and try to get some sort of casual meeting where you can subtly probe for some of those signs that it’s not “over” yet.

-Avery